• Salinas
• California
• United States

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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

Looking for: man. In age: 40-75

Hi! My name is Secretlysexy. I am divorced protestant caucasian woman with kids from Salinas, California, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

• Salinas
• California
• United States

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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

Would love to meet someone special to spend time with. I'm pretty independent, have a job and a house and lots of interests. When the weather's nice I like to be outdoors: hiking/taking the dogs for a walk or to the dog park or doing something fun like putt putt or bicycling/kayaking. I also love art & enjoy going to local art galleries or museums. I love to cook and bake, I eat a lot of vegetarian food and love Indian food as well as other cuisines. I'm not into the bar scene much anymore, I don't mind an occasional drink but I'd much rather go to a coffee shop or somewhere mellow. I volunteer when I can & have been active in animal rescue, so if you love animals that's even better! If it sounds like we may have some of the same interests, let's talk. :) Looking for someone who's active, positive and enjoys life. Something casual like a coffee shop, where we have a chance to talk without a lot of pressure.

• Salinas
• California
• United States

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Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

Hey there! If that makes sense?? For that to happen, I think we would need to have great chemistry: I want to find someone I'm really excited to see, talk to, and have in my life. I don't want to settle for someone who is just nice to have around, or prevents me from feeling bored or lonely at times. At the end of the day, I think it is as simple as just finding someone you are pretty damn sure you don't want to live the rest of your life without...I would love to find a kind, flexible, intelligent and down-to-earth guy who can treat me as an equal; acting as a team with a healthy give-and-take is key! In addition, there must be honesty, good communication, warmth/tenderness, and support. Laughter and fun is also necessary; I honestly can't imagine spending the rest of my life with someone I can't laugh with. Talk about dull! I have a very dry and sarcastic sense of humor, so if you do as well--even better! To top it all off, there should be a strong element of passion, or else the relationship will just feel like two buddies hanging out. That's no good! I think I should also add: I certainly didn't join meetville to perpetually date many people. I believe after a certain amount of time and dates the focus should be on trying to build something with one person and see where that path leads. So, if you joined meetville to casually date many women and have no current interest in trying to build a relationship with just one person, then I'm probably not the girl for you. I have also come to realize that I would not be a good fit with someone who already has children; I tried this path before and it is not a good fit for me. I also would not be a good match with someone who supports Obama. I am very political and cannot stand what he has done to this country. Just thought I'd get those two points out sooner than later. I don't mean to disrespect anyone's views or life choices--I just don't want to waste anyone's time or mine. Hmmm...about me? I currently work as a post-doctoral fellow on breast cancer research. I've been at my current position for 3 years and will be leaving within the next year to hopefully start working in a biotech or big pharma company on cancer drug development. Most of my friends would describe me as a free-spirit, outgoing, active, kind, fun, and with a bit of a sassy/spicy side. I'm definitely not afraid to speak my mind, and I know that can scare some away. :-) Write me if any of this sounds interesting, or even if it doesn't. ha!Happy Fishing! :-) I think a few drinks is best - either wine or martinis is great! I've always believed that if you can't feel chemistry when you are dressed up, in bar-lighting and buzzed, then you'll never feel it in the "real" world! So, that has always been my test. :-)